B Buddy

right in Telegram

For when you type “whatever”, and it is absolutely not whatever.

Buddy is your steady person. You can text at night, messy, angry, embarrassed, stupid, half-formed. Buddy does not judge, gossip, rush in to fix you, or turn you into a problem. Just someone on your side who actually gives a damn.

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say it out loud!
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Buddy here
YouI just need someone to be here.
BuddyI’m here. Want a hug, a proper rant, or just someone sitting next to you?
YouI don’t want her anymore (
BuddyWhy are you saying that like it makes you bad?
Youwhat do I even do tonight, I’m empty
BuddyBy the way. The new season of that show you were waiting for dropped today. You said: “if I survive the week, I’m lying down and watching it”.
You can just say it out loud. Buddy gets it.
write or say it as it is...

For the moments when normal words run out.

You do not have to phrase it nicely. Start with the thing actually spinning in your head.

“I want to text her”

I’m with you. But a 2:46 message is not love, it is anxiety with a keyboard. Drop the draft here.

“maybe I’m an asshole”

Maybe you messed up. But “I’m an asshole” is a very convenient club to beat your whole self with. What happened?

“I’m fine, everything just pisses me off”

Heard “fine”. “Everything pisses me off” sounds more convincing.

and yes, Buddy remembers

Remembers your mess. Not like a dirt folder.

Buddy does not start every conversation from zero. Keeps track of how to talk to you, who matters, what sets you off, where it hurts, and where not to barge in. Not to throw it back at you. To feel like yours.

how to talk to youwho matterswhat not to pokewhere jokes helpwhere to be softer
YouI completely forgot what I wanted to do Friday
BuddyThe new season of your show. You said: “when it drops, I’m disappearing for the evening and owing nobody anything”.
Youoh damn. right. that is a gift
BuddyExactly. Blanket, food, no explaining yourself.

Without the crap that makes you close the chat.

Buddy does not turn your life into a self-improvement assignment.

No questionnairesNo choosing tone, mode, or “conversation goals”. You are not setting up a microwave.
No commandsNo remembering what to tap. Just write like a human.
No judgmentYou can be angry, ashamed, funny, empty. This is not an interrogation.
No forced savingIf you only need someone beside you, then someone stays beside you.

You already have chats for work, family, banks, and delivery.

Time to have one where you do not have to keep your face on.

Talk to Buddy

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